Thursday, April 10, 2008
Back!
Monday, January 14, 2008
Stay or Leave?!
Sorry to make everyone so 'geng cheong'......'da da da' is my maid la! :P
Well, my maid contract will be end this July, i had a discussion with her over the last weekend. Offer her more than 20% increment and 1 1/2 mths holiday back to her hometown. She was happy and agreed to continue her 4th year of service with me. Yesterday morning, she happily called her hometown spread the news that she will back for holiday this July.
Who knows at nite by 10pm++, her mother called her......asked her not to continue working here, command her to go back and stay. I've asked her the reason, she said her mum din tell her, only asked her to go back. She looked confused and dunno what to do.
Well, in my heart i do hope she can continue working for me as my princesses are used to her. They treat her like their 2nd mummy at home. She dotes the princesses a lot too.... But i can understand if her mum asked her to be back as she has left her own country for 3 years leaving her son & hubby back in hometown. As a mother and as a daughter i understand and hope my family to be stay together with me all the time. Same as she & her mother too, i guess....
My worries, not sure if i should get a new maid after she leave later...should i give up my job and stay at home to take care my princesses. I just scare i can't get a better maid. Then, its my turn pula to keep thinking my current working situation. Sometimes, i feel that i really lack of 'goal' or vision in my life. I dun really know what i want in my life. I am ok to be SAHM and take care of my princesses, especially after read so much of 'sick' news recently. All the young gals no longer safe eventhough as young as below 5. This make me really worry and willing to give up my own job. In other hand, i oso worry my own pocket money if really choose to stay at home. Haiii...really headached to think all these....
I dun have a solution yet, and i need some times to think....well, pray hard, pray for my maid could stay for another year, so that i no need to headache now but another one year then... :P
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
2008 1st trip, 1st post.....
Together with my few friends went to HK last week. It was a fun and shopped a lot trip. The weather there is the lowest in these 10 winter years, 10 degree.
The most unforgetful experience was lined up for about 1.5 hours just to buy a 'pork chop pao' in one of the un-noticeable shop in Macau. And also we went for the fireworks on the new year eve for count down, to me...am quite disappointed with the fireworks, just too little la. Dunno is my expectation too high or the location we choose was not good for the view. :-(
Oh yea,one more thing was we quite frustrated to look for public toilets. It is ok if you are at those 5 star shopping malls, or else u will find difficulty to 'explore' for their public toilets. Even their most crowded 'LRT' stations oso dun provide this type of public facilities. Remember got one time, we quite tired to look for a toilet, so we ask the LRT customer service staff. Thank God, they were very generous & willing to borrow us their 'only for staff use' toilet. I even notice a lot of restaurant put up a notice outside said the restaurant toilet only for their diners. See, spaces are very limited and valuable in HK. Therefore, toilet oso very costly and valuable indirectly.
Talking about shopping, we few woman really can shop, half of our trip were shopping days. From day till night, nope, should say till mid-night. Each time reached back hotel and rest, my legs were like not belong to mine and once collapsed on the bed, can't stand at all. But so strange, the next morning the whole body feel energetic and can go for another full shopping day. What a miracle! As now is the winter time over there, most are the winter wear.....i only buy few for princesses and hubby. Can not buy much la, can not use here later. Only wait for going to Genting or Cameron. But they are really cheap...myself, lou gong, & princesses every each jacket not more than RM40.
Eventhough i went to HK before, but i almost forget most of the places and stuff over there. So this time, also like a lot of 'refreshing' memories. I must praise my hubby for taking good care of my princesses when i am not around. In fact, daddy said the princesses were more well behave when mummy is not around! :-P
Ok, photos to be uploaded later......
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
Photos...
As Xmas is coming, mummy decided to print all these photos, and make an album for each of the princess as their Xmas present. The photos had been accumulated up to 700++ pcs....Mummy used one whole day to sort them out and going to print 360++ pcs. Along the way of sorting out the photos, mummy feel so sweet....watching the way the princesses grow! Its just amazing! and very much blessing. Too bad, some of the photos are not nice if print out....a lot are for blogging material.
Mummy really need to take times to blog them out here, hopefully my princesses will find their memories back in this blog one day. Hope they enjoy to see their growth here and oso know how deep their mummy's love to them....as this blog is mainly dedicate to them!
Monday, November 26, 2007
Fry rice, fried rice, fright(ening) rice.....
The gathering was 'pot-luck' style, mummy suppose to provide 'fried rice'. Kakak early morning already cooked the rice....Mummy looked at the rice, headached! So much of rice how to finish? As the rice was cooked quite sometimes, when ate the lunch time, my pricesses oso dun wanna eat....told me the rice no good, very hard wor...
Monday, November 19, 2007
Flirting? OH NO!
Daddy was away to Jakarta for the last 2 weeks, well mummy suppose to go home earlier when daddy was not around. Unfortunately, mummy was being tide up with the office workload and THANKS to my boss oso, always look for mummy at the last minutes before i left office.
MIL had query too, and asked me to go home as early as possible. Last Tuesday finally, i left office early and went to do a facial treatment. As usual, facial treatment end for 2 hours, and i reached my MIL place even later.
At first i din realise anything, when reach my own home....my maid came to me and asked, 'ma'am, why u wear ur blouse reverse side yea? Oh no, i din aware i wear my blouse 'terbalik' (reverse side) after the facial treatment. I had change my blouse and wear the special 'robe' for my facial treatment earlier....
Ok, now....if you are my MIL....What do you think? This dotta in law always come home late when her son is not around, sumore came back with blouse 'terbalik' (reverse side)!!! OH NO......
Well, daddy is back, and today is the first day he goes back to MIL's place, let's see if MIL has any story to tell daddy? I hope i think too much here.... :P
Friday, November 9, 2007
Jealousy
The answer is.....my maid : Kakak Robiah! Well, the story begin with the last 2 weeks when mummy was sick, the 2 princesses were sleeping with kakak as daddy not able to handle them both to sleep. And, after then, the 2 princesses like to sleep with kakak and not with mummy anymore! :(
Mummy has been played some tricks, hopefully the princesses will come back to sleep with me. By telling them how mummy will miss them if not seing them sleeping around me. Jiejie is mature enough to pity mummy, so she came out an idea to sleep one nite with mummy but sleep with kakak the following nite and so on.... When mummy asking for more nites, she told mummy ...mummy still have meimei to accompany mar.....
Yea, meimei every nites will agree to sleep with mummy at the beginning, but will always go down to kakak's room at the end .....looking for her 'yao yao' (swing)! End up the 2 princesses sleep with kakak for countless nites.
I've asked jiejie why she likes to sleep with kakak? her answer not kakak she choose to, but kakak's room is nicer to sleep wor....Daddy & mummy had been analyse the situation, we concluded that the princesses might feel more secure and safe sleep in kakak's room as her room is smaller and more quiet. Our bedroom sometimes can be quite noisy, as all types of sounds can be hear due to the fact that the room is facing to the main road.
Well, daddy is away to Jakarta for these 2 weeks, mummy had begging the 2 princesses to sleep with mummy. Luckily 'po po' is visiting us for a week, and the princesses had switch their preference from 'kakak' to 'po po' these few nites.
Thanks to 'Po po' the princesses 'indirectly' sleep with mummy as 'Po Po' will accompany them to sleep in mummy's bedroom! :P
Daddy is fine for the princesses to sleep separately as he is in the view that they sooner or later also have to sleep separetly but mummy feel a bit sad..... Yea, mummy is still hunger to sleep with them, like to see their peaceful way of sleeping (very angel's look), like their smell, like to touch them when mummy sometimes woke up in the midnite.....Wah, sounds like mummy very disturbing in the midnite horr, no wonder they choose to sleep with kakak not mummy ler.... :P
Mummy really dun mind to sleep with them eventhough sometimes the princesses can be very fussy in the midnites, cos to mummy...... the princesses grow very fast, so appreciate when they are small, they still stick with you....if not sooner or later, when u wanna sleep with them (like now ler) they also dun want!! Yea, mummy will not give up, will try to come out more 'tricks' to bring them back to sleep with mummy!! Mummy next 'big mission'!!
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
What to buy?
Just got $200 vouchers from my office, yea not much...that's y i can't decide if i should go for skin care, fragrance or some wearing apparel! Really can't decide! Its not $2000 but only $200, so whatever i buy sure hv to top up my own pocket money!
Well, few of my colleagues use the vouchers to buy a pair of 'CROCS' for themselve and they pursuading me to do so too....
So much to buy, yet too lil money to spend! :-P
Monday, October 29, 2007
Money not enough! :-P
I couldn't eat most of the thing for the last 2 days, may be due to the ulcers or throat swelling i hardly can eat any food. My troat is so painful when the food reach that area, like burning till my tears out. Porridge out, soup kueh teow out, even my own home cook soup oso can not dun even mention for others solid food. So yesterday, suffered hungry all the day...and may be due to shout at the princesses few times...at nite, it was getting worse. Not even can drink a small pack of milk. GOSH! really can't find a word to describe my suffer and torture!
In fact yesterday early morning, mummy went to see another doctor as the medicine given by the first doctor seem helpless to my sorethroat. This round, the doctor is quite old & experienced, he advised to get injection as my throat infection is very bad. Initially i agreed, when the doctor asked the nurse take our the jab, suddenly something came in my mind and asked how much is the jab. Lucky i asked, doctor said the jab costs about RM50...aiyah, i only brought RM50 out and i had bought some lil groceries before proceed to the clinique. Very pai seh, i told the doctor, i will come for 2nd round as i dun bring enough money.
The doctor later subcribed some good medicines (good antibiotic lar) asked me to try at home first. If can not then, go back to do the injection. So this is the first time, mummy's money not enough to see doctor. Who knows throat infection oso need to inject wan wor.... :P
Anyway, this will serve a lesson to me too...always bring more extra money to see doctor even just the normal GP doctor, u never know what will happen... :P
I wish this sorethroat nightmare fast fast over, it's really torturing when u r hungry but u can not eat! i understand that feeling now! But look at the bright side, hope can lose some weight lar....crazy horr woman! :-D
Monday, October 22, 2007
Low Low CUT!
On the last last Thursday, 2 days before Raya mummy had a team dinner that nite. Thought going out for dinner, better wear a nicer blouse + black long sleek pants...End up wore a new black blouse which bought 2 days ago. Well, the blouse is Rayon (soft, heavier & stretchable material ) quite low cut, but with standing position still orite.
Here is the picture of my black blouse. The blouse comes with a spagetti-strap inside, kind of 2 in one. To secure my self from explore too much...mummy used 3 small pins to pin the spagetti -strap with the bra, hopefully the spagetti won't drop here & there. Everything seems fine....
Since that moment, my scarf was on my neck and covered my upper body for the whole morning, and guess what?
I rush to department store and bought another new blouse first thing during my lunch time on that day and here is the pic of my 2nd new blouse. :P
And i did a right thing, during the dinner, i was so relax and feel safe to enjoy my crabs without worries on the low low cut!! Well, mummy learn a lesson too, when trying a new cloth in the fitting room, can not just stand there.....we must try many actions & different position. for eg. squatting (can not sit on the floor rite?!), jumpping... whatever u can think lar....cos diff position u might have diff view....Oooppps, then i scare the ppl waiting outside might getting frustrated and kick the door, how?! :P
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Back......
Mummy was really busy for the whole last week, and daddy oso flied to Jakarta very frequent lately. Almost every week! So, mummy was busy for the work and the princesses at home. Luckily, this month won't be so hectic cos of the Raya festivals. Mummy & daddy will be on leave for the next whole week to celebrate this festive together with our Muslim friends.
Mummy even get a new hairstyle for this Raya!! Mummy had been very bored with the previous straight hair. So this time, asked the hair stylist to design a new hairstyle for me. Surprisingly the result not bad, ...will post my new hairstyle once i get a new card reader.
One month not posting, my digital photos card reader oso lost ledi....sigh!! :(
This is my new curly hair, my friends who knows me well will know this is my first tried of having curly hair, all this while my hair was long & straight. After being straight for so many years......Now a new look for me!
Monday, September 10, 2007
~Precious Picture~
and NOW, for the first time....ta...da... :-)
Ok, to make it more fun, i put my princesses picture too, to see if anyone of them look like mummy or ah Yee? What's your say??
Friday, August 17, 2007
3 minutes realization!
20 yrs later, they contact back these 3500 students, 100 of them have become millionaire. Surprisingly, 99 of the milionaire are from the 23% where they love their job and passionate about it, only 1 of the millionaire is from the major 87%. The research proove that most of the successful ppls are pasionate and really love with what they are doing. Not like most of them who don't have the passionate for the job, they do mainly for surviving purposes. This research oso told us as parents should encourage to explore our kids interest & passionate, help them to develop their strenght but not pressing them what to be because of what we want them to be.
Think back, even now i 30yrs++ oredi, i oso dunno what i like and what my interests are. Last time, my parents only asked me to study, study & study. We study for the sake of our exam at school. After exam, all we memorised hard give back to the teachers & lecturer. Same like most of the students nowadays, homeworking, study hard hopefully can pass the exam with flying colours. The exam results seem like the most important thing, if ur results no good, u like no way out and useless. How many of us as parents really help our kids to explore their talent, interest and passionate. Most of us, hoping them to do well in their exam. Pathetic rite?
Even now, i ask myself, if one day my jiejie growth enough, come and tell me this, 'mummy, i am very confidence in singing, all the ppl said i have the talent, i love singing and want to be a singer.' or meimei tell me this, 'mummy, i want to be a model as my carreerl!!' What would be my reactions then? Will i support them? Willl i respect their own choice? Dunno, really dunno......just hope that day won't come so soon!!! :P
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
FTWM??SAHM??
FTWM vs SAHM
Even before i get this tag from Mylifezone, i have been asking myself hundred and thousand times, FTWM? SAHM? and i still yet to decide. Even if i resign and bcome 'plofesunal' SAHM, still it won't be so soon.
The main reason SAHM would be for my 2 princesses of course! All of us know now the syllabus for primary school is no longer as easy as our last time. Think parents really need to put effort and times to guide the kids on the homeworking! Another major reason would be our society safety, i really been scared by all those kidnapping, killing and raping case nowadays. Just too much and scary!! These 2 reasons are enough for me to sacrify my work for the sake of my princesses.
Yea, i admit its hard for me to decide as i scare i have no pocket money if being SAHM in future. Thats why i told daddy to work harder, hopefully he can support my SAH's allowance 2-3k monthly. I can take care of my home and kids without a maid then. Daddy, u hear me?? :P
Well, think & plan always nicer than reality......esp when i see my princesses smiles & laughs, i wish to stay with them all the time.....
But when they fighting, crying, complaining......
Meimei :
Jiejie : Wuaahhhhhhh, mummieee.... meimei 'yao wor'!! (meimei bite me)
If so, mummy wish to run far far and go to office then.... :P
Saturday, August 11, 2007
***100th post***
Whatever issit, still wanna shout HOORAY! HOORAY for this 100th post. Wish mummy have more time and more material to post in future. Gambateh for mummy and all the bloggers friend out there! :-)
Thursday, August 9, 2007
~Breakaway~
Monday, August 6, 2007
Office Politics!
Immediately, my manager 'naik angin' asked me why i've put so many effort and time on this. Showed him what i have to do for the report, he more anger......Asked me to stop doing that tedious analysis, well, he is not anger with me, but the lady manager.....Told me she is very good using other ppl's resources, summore told me to be reminded myself that i won't get review for doing all this ppl's jobs.
Alamak, i was like stuck in the middle, i know i know the lady manager's kind of person, summore now she is the big boss's apple. That's y i can not say NO in front of her mar....She had been taken me for a discussion for 1 1/2 hours, briefing me what to do and what she wants...
The incidence ended by sending her a note, saying that i not able to do it as i need to assist my mgr to do some other matters, followed by a note from my manager later too....asking her to seek some other ppl's help on this. Mummy thought this incidence should end on that way.....
Who knows this early morning, the lady manager had been searching me like mad. Asking me why i throw back the file to her.....and she is very disapponted with me all those says lar....Aiyoh, i told her lar......my boss need me for some other stuff mar, then she said i din call her and tell her lar, the last friday, whole day she was in the back to back meetings, never check her mails lar...Come on lar, how i know she din check her mail leh....Sumore she said, am i expecting her to do her own during weekend....Hey, i should ask her another way back, if she dun wish to work on weekend, same as mine!
Without saying much or dispute with her, i told her to call my boss, anything talk to my boss please. I hate to get stuck in all these politics, by right i should follow my boss's intructions, but horr....my office is very famous with the changes of structure, you won't know when your boss will be changed. Afraid i under her one day (who knows?), then i really no way out..... :(
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
....................
In fac, i've hint her last few days that her daddy would be away to India. Jiejie asked where is India, mummy told her its a far far land with a lot of 'ang ker bur leng geh'....Wuuuahhhhhh.....immediately, jiejie cried keep saying dun wan her daddy goes to far far land, want her daddy go office to work. Okok, thats how i come out this lie. I know its not suppose to tell a lie to the kids, but i would rather tell lie than handling the drama queens. Sumore, 2 queens at the same time! :-)
Beside waiting for daddy to come back this Thursday, mummy just received a good news. This year increment would be 10% for mummy. Eventhough its not tat great, but better than none rite? Ok, this time muymmy really have to take 1 day leave to pamper myselve, take a break from the princesses, works and everything & anything...too bad only one day. Oppss, not even 1 day only from 9am-5pm! :-)
Let see which aunty out there oso need a break as me. Hehehe!
Sunday, July 8, 2007
303030!
Last Saturday was mummy birdday! :-) Went for buffet lunch with daddy in Jogaya, Starhill. Frankly speaking mummy a bit scare to number 30, not so long ago 30 yrs old seem like very far far away from mummy....who knows, so fast this yr mummy bcome 30 liao...
Jiejie : 'Meimei, let's go for a ride!'
Jiejie scream : Meiiiiii, stop pressing the bell!!
Meimei : Huhh...'ho lek meh'.....i oso have my own tricycle, faster than jiejie wan....'Baiiiii, mummy!' hoooooo..... :P
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Busy Blindly....
Last time heard a survey done, said parents should spend about 3 hrs per day to their kids for stronger bond and relationship. Nowadays, sometimes we only reach home by 8pm++, sometimes ever later.....by 10pm, the princesses need to sleep oredi. That's the reason why i insist to coax them sleep no matter how tired i am. If not, i will feel very bad by pushing them to kakak.
To my princesses, mummy love both of you very very much no matter how busy mummy is. Mummy hope we will have more time together soon yea....
