Daddy just started his new job, and we are car pooling again as his office is nearby my office. Some of you might know, last time when both of us worked in Cyberjaya we were car pool too. But too bad, the car pooling last time really dun leave me any good memory.
Well, we fight a lot when car pooling, we could pick up a fight simply due to one of the party waited for more than 5mins, fight for favourite station and etc.... I remembered our biggest fight oso happened in the car when we were on the way to office. Fight so bad until i can't control myself and bursted in tears. Din go to work on that morning, and daddy straight away sent me home eventhough we already reached my office. How to work with swollen tearful eyes? Dunno what to tell the collegues later oso!
Later, to avoid we keep fighting in the car, we decided to separate car to work even though daddy's office was just opposite of mine. Apparently, things get better as less time to be together, we more appreciate with each other. Both of us would go for lunch together once-twice weekly. I no longer need to wait for daddy to go home and I can join the yoga class afterwards. Less expectation definitely less fight afterwards...
This time, we car pooling again, as my office in BU and his office in DU. We could save a lot on the tolls and the petrol as well. Frankly speaking, it is great to have someone to accompany especially stuck in the jam, journey would be not so bored. And i really hope this time things will get better as we learned from our lessons last time. I would like to rephrase the car pooling to car pulling, hoping spending more times together in car will pull us closer! Wish us luck!! :-)
Well, we fight a lot when car pooling, we could pick up a fight simply due to one of the party waited for more than 5mins, fight for favourite station and etc.... I remembered our biggest fight oso happened in the car when we were on the way to office. Fight so bad until i can't control myself and bursted in tears. Din go to work on that morning, and daddy straight away sent me home eventhough we already reached my office. How to work with swollen tearful eyes? Dunno what to tell the collegues later oso!
Later, to avoid we keep fighting in the car, we decided to separate car to work even though daddy's office was just opposite of mine. Apparently, things get better as less time to be together, we more appreciate with each other. Both of us would go for lunch together once-twice weekly. I no longer need to wait for daddy to go home and I can join the yoga class afterwards. Less expectation definitely less fight afterwards...
This time, we car pooling again, as my office in BU and his office in DU. We could save a lot on the tolls and the petrol as well. Frankly speaking, it is great to have someone to accompany especially stuck in the jam, journey would be not so bored. And i really hope this time things will get better as we learned from our lessons last time. I would like to rephrase the car pooling to car pulling, hoping spending more times together in car will pull us closer! Wish us luck!! :-)
16 comments:
I wish you luck.. hope your car pool will bring heart pull as well.. :D
wish u luck :)
wow.. u both also very good 'fire' oh ... learn from mistakes, we got to learn everyday ...
WISH U LUCK !!
I had the bad experienced with hubby during our car pool session too..like your case, the situation got improved after we drove different cars.
i'm sure ur relationship with him will be better now. either one of the party should control his/her temper and never start off an argue. talk gently and everything will be fine.
p/s: completed my tag lo...
Good, got driver to fetch u.
Hehe...
Hi! I am new here, a friend of MY Life Zone. I was car polled with my hubby before we had our little one, it was so much fun, because we can release some tension by telling what had happen in the office, then after work we go to find good place for dinner. Boy, I really miss that! But very soon we will car pool again when I start work, but maybe this time will be different after we have a little one, the topic must be him! Hehe
etcetera mum & grace : thx dear! :)
Mylifezone : yea, both of us oso very 'mang fuo' wan! hehehe!
huisia : wah, our story so similar lar..
jacelyn : yea, now our relationship grow stronger & closer, less fight too! Thx for done the tag! :)
weiwei : always feel good to hv 'ahmad' wan, but am the 'Ahmad' temporary! Hahaha!
jeannie : Hi, thx for dropping by! not sure if u remember me, i had dropped by ur house once if am not mistaken. Hehehe!
ayo come u cried one...if it was me it will definitely be him crying! all the best!!
Wish you all the best!! The best thing is dun ever start fight back, cool down b4 start the conversation then it will less argue.
Yes, now I remember you ... hehe
Hi CPM--sometimes we get stuck in a rut with each other. It's good to have time away. Then we come back and with fresh eyes see what each other is going through.
Wish u luck. Probably with the 1st experience you would be able to know how to handle the next time.
laundryamah : wah, u really tough, Amah!! :P
1+2mom : thank god, we have less fight recently.
jeannie : hehehe :)
the new parent : agreed, especially when we are mad, everything seems like so bad & negative!
mamatang : thx, hope this round will getting better.
hahaha back to square one...dun worry la...most days will be good days la...only some days we itchy need to fight a bit, make pasal...or not how to kiss-&-make-up later...heheheh right or not???
no wonder we crowned as a Drama Queen lar...hahaha!
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